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Not only will others feel the unnaturalness of their pose, but the stress and strain of keeping up the act only serves to wear them down faster, leaving them drained and upset… Not everybody is built to be a club-hopping player – and yet that’s what PUA culture directs men towards.
Not everybody is cut out for traditional monogamy, for polyamory, for kink, for vanilla sex…
It can be tempting to rationalize this away: after all, why wouldn’t someone take being desired as a compliment?
But then: when you say will do, you’re saying that you don’t give a damn about the individual.
On a practical level, desperation hurts you in a multitude of ways.
There’s a reason why “just be yourself” is one of the most annoyingly useless advice cliches out there.The problem of course is that while Mystery was able to get away with dressing like a Hot Topic jumped him in a dark alley, he’s a professional magician; dressing weird comes with the territory.Everybody else was hoping that their outfits were going to do most of the heavy lifting for them and generally looked like idiots.If, for example, you believe that only “alpha” – for a suitably mistaken definition of “alpha” men get women, then that will be part of your reality.Not because it’s notice or pay heed to that which confirms your pre-existing belief.